Spring break and we have been counting the days to our trip to see my mishpocheh (family). We’ve had four Nor’easters in 3 weeks, snow up to my tuchas (tush, derriere) and all too much tsuris (troubles, stress, woe) filling our minds. The thought of 80-degree weather, sunshine, swimming, and laughing my ass off with my shvester (sister) until we literally wet ourselves was naturally the stuff of dreams… like unicorns, L.O.L surprise dolls, and glitter falling from the sky. And the kinder (my girls), they love seeing their Aunt, Uncle, and Cousins more than anything!

T minus two days, and the fever, she burns through my Little. A temperature of almost 104. She had complained of a tummy ache, and like all good Jewish-atheist momma’s, I told her to sit on the potty. She has had so much junk food of late, a good poo would be a relief like it would for all of us. She tried, my madelah (sweet girl). We watch The Greatest Showman on the telly.

T minus one day, fever sticking around like gum underneath the table in a diner. Lethargy and skin as pale as fine porcelain said porcelain will play a role very soon. We plan, we pack, we share the news of germs and we try to stay positive. We watch The Greatest Showman, then we snuggle off to bed, my Little wrapped tightly in my arms. A few tired hours pass and we all awaken to a fountain of vomit. Nothing really says love more than getting thrown up on, and only worrying about the helpless, unhappy, scared little patient in your arms. We clean her up. Big, she helps us to change the sheets and blankets. The Mrs. presses the ‘sanitize’ button on the wash cycle.
There is a strange calm in the air, with a scent none too pleasant. Little, she fell fast and hard to sleep, again tucked close by my side. I could hear the soft crying moans from Big, realizing that we wouldn’t be taking that big ol’ jet airliner in a few hours time. Tears roll down my cheeks, silently. At 4 am I text my shvester, our friend who was to stay with Gatsby. We are a no go. Ix-nay on this oliday-hay.
Has the world ended? No. Are we grateful that we only have a petite passing pathogen that will eventually vanish? Of course. Are we all desperately disappointed? Big time.
Day of. I let all three of my girls sleep. I promise my Big that we will find a way to make it fun. That we will take turns taking her out of the sickly house and have some well-earned fun. I speak several times with my mishpocheh. My schvoger (bro-in-law), he punches frantically in the keyboard to see if we can squeeze out different dates of travel, salvage our trip. We have teary-eyed FaceTime calls. So many plans they had in store for us! Vey iz mir. (oh my effing G).

Little, she cries for my Mrs. to stay with her, so Big and I make our way into the world. We have a nice nosh (little something to eat) at Starbucks. And head to the movies in a gray, teary day. We see A Wrinkle In Time. The woman at the ticket sales booth is 803 years old if she is a minute. In the past, she has given me the senior rate, to my dismay. Today, she again rings us up, 1 senior, 1 child. I feel the dark cloud above, rather than reveling in the 8 dollar savings. f*ck it and enjoy the show with your daughter
We had a lovely afternoon and decided Little, she would have been afraid in this movie. We bring home a vast array of popsicles (they used to call them poppa-sicles) for the sick one, in hopes of getting her to eat/drink. We learn of the day spent in (and close to) the porcelain seat, now the excrement exodus from the southern region. Oy. This reaffirms our tough decision. We watch The Greatest Showman.
Little finally wakes up with no fever and no symptoms. We convince her of just one more day indoors. The 24 hour, fever free rule — to keep the rest of humanity safe.

Her hair has begun to form dreadlocks. We all fear the brushing of that mop. The Mrs., she starts round one, and Big, me and Gatsby head out the door to explore our new ‘hood. We walk for an hour, in hopes of better hair days. We have such a good time! Gatsby is loving the spring and leaving pee-mail messaging around for all his new friends.
We open the front door to a geshrei (shriek, loud, unearthly Jamie Lee Curtis in Halloween cry). At least another hour goes by, and I am summoned so Big can get out’a dodge with the Mrs. Armed with a brush, conditioner, and really bad TV, I sit with my muse. It will be 4:45pm before I claim victory. Her head, like a BP oil spill, finally combs through. We did it.
Later that night, we watch The Greatest Showman. Who knew our spring break, our circus, would also be our groundhog day. Aud-o, Steve-o, Max, Vic, we love and miss you all so much.
Yiddish Proverb:
A mensch tracht un Got lacht. Man plans and God laughs.
From The Greatest Showman:
‘Cause we’re dreaming with our eyes wide open.
So come alive!
And of course, a bei gesunt. As long as you’re healthy! Stop by tonight! The Greatest Showman, 8pm.
Sorry the viral yuck got in the way of your travel plans. Poor kid. Glad she’s feeling better and, of course, this post made me smile. 😊❤️
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And I’m kvelling knowing I made you smile! Big has the fever now. Kill me! 💕✨😘
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Glad you’re all better. Stay well!
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It’s good you are all better great read as always Thank you for linking to #Thatfridaylinky please come back next week
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Will do, Nige! #ThatFridayLinky xoxo
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Ty, Nige. Germ warfare is horrible. #thatfridaylinky xo
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Hope you’re all feeling better now, it’s always the way isn’t it! #KCACOLS
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This is the first time we’ve been sidelined! Sick while away, just not sacking the whole thing! Bummed, but surviving! #kcacols xo
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Glad to hear you’re all feeling better – and that the mane of hair was tamed! 🙂 #KCACOLS
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Thanks Jess. Germ warfare stinks! 🤧😷🤒 #kcacols
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Oh no! It’s rubbish that a sick bug can stop all plans! I hope you get to rearrange soon #ThatFridayLinky
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All plans got the Ki-bosh! 😷🤒🤧 #thatfridaylinky xo
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We have been struck by a bug too. Right in the middle of half term. I hope you’re all better soon.
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Oh no! I hope you and your crew are all better too! 😇
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oh what a shame about the bug and the broken plans. Fingers crossed you get to go soon.
#LGRTStumble
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I was the last woman standing! At least all are feeling better now! 😘 #LGRTstumble
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Aww… poor Little. I hope she feels better soon. It is so typical isn’t it when you have planned so much but when sickness struck down, it all goes pear shape. But I’m sure there will be more opportunity to meet with their favourite Uncle and Auntie soon! 🙂 xxx
Thank you very much for linking up with us on #FabFridayPost
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Thank you, Su! All ate better now and we will attempt June for a do-over! 😇😘 #fabfridaypost xo
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So sorry the viral got in the way of your holiday plans! But I’m glad the little got well soon, and the Big and you managed to squeeze in some fun times, too!
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Thank you, love! We are survivors! 😌😉🙃
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I was working all weekend but my wife and kids headed to lovely Kerry for the weekend. Her sister’s kid had the dreaded tummy bug but they came anyway — and infected my missus!!!! First time in months she had seen her folks and she’s puking and … Some holiday break! #DreamTeam
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So you and me are the only parents left
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Left standing? Oy!
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Glad you’re all better. Health first. #DreamTeam
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Ty, lively! You are right!
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Oh bless you guys. It’s awful when your kids get in and you have to cancel plans like this. I hope you’re all better and you get to see your sister soon x #itsok
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Ty Kate. We are trying for June. Love the new linky. 😘
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Oh poor little love. Being ill sucks and horrible when it ruins plans. #fabfridaypost
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Thanks Sarah! #fabfridaypost 😗
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Poor thing, glad that she is feeling better now and that everybody else was able to dodge it. On another note, the word tuchas gave me a big smile. I haven’t heard that one since my gram passed many years ago. Its weird the things that can remind you of someone. More snow on the way I hear! Its getting a bit nuts, isn’t it? #itsok
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Hey Jeremy! I’m glad tuchas made you smile! Actually, everyone dropped like flies, save for me. The nurse! Hood thing it passed. No snow allowed. #itsok
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Oh I’m so sorry you had to cancel your plans. It’s so frustrating when that happens. My brother and his young family were supposed to visit us at New Year this year and they had to cancel because of a sickness bug and our girls were so upset. I hope you can rearrange something soon and that your little one is fully recovered now #blogcrush
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June! It’s the new April! Ha! 😂😂😂 #blogcrush
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Watch yourself as when we care for others we can neglect ourselves all too easily. I love how you write and all your alternatives for words makes me smile and learn too so thanks #FortheLoveofBlog
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Thank you, Kate! You are so kind! I like making people smile. 🙃😉😘 #fortheloveofblog
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I thought I had commented on this already, I may have gone to your spam folder! The worst thing about plans are when they fall apart due to illness. I hope everyone is feeling well again! #GlobalBlogging
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Thanks Heather! We are back in the saddle! xoxo #globalblogging xoxo
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I’m back with #DreamTeam!!
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At least it passed quickly enough but I’m sorry your trip was cancelled. Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next time
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Thanks Bread! I’ll be back! xoxo #KCACOLS xo
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Sorry to read that your family has been ill #GlobalBlogging
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We are back! Thanks for your well wishes! May we be immune for a little bit, any way. #globalblogging xoxo
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Oh, what a shame your holiday had to be cancelled. These nasty bugs always come along when they are least wanted. Did the rest of you manage to avoid it? Thanks for joining in with #TriumphantTales, do come back Tuesday!
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They dropped like flies Jaki! One at a time, and I was the last one standing. Good thing, I had to walk Gatsby! ❤ This should be the worst of our troubles (tsuris) xoxo #TriumphantTales xoxo
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Aww bless her, I hope she’s well and truly on the mend now. You certainly can’t plan these things! Hope you have another adventure soon. Thank you for linking up to the #itsok linky!
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Looking like June is the new April! At least for us. May we all stay healthy until and through that little jaunt! Thanks so much for the new Linky! #itsok xo
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Ah, shame you’ll had to cancel travel plans but you are so right, Man plans and God laughs. I often quote: “Life is what happens to you when you’re busy making other plans”. Glad she’s feeling better now and hopefully you’ll can make that trip soon. Thanks for joining us at #itsok
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Thanks so much. They all got sick, one at a time, and I was the last one standing — just in time to go back to work! Oh well. It’s a pleasure being here. #itsok xo
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What a wonderful post!! Best thing I’ve read all week, even though it’s also so terribly sad that you had to cancel your great trip! Hugs!
About the yiddish, I notice again some similarities with Swedish (my native language), such as schvoger/svåger 🙂. I was also wondering if “Vey iz mir” is the same as “woe is me” (which my hubby uses sometimes, lol)?
Anyway, fantastic post! Hope you’re all in good health now, and perhaps watching something other than The Greatest Showman…?? 😅xx
#GlobalBlogging
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We do have a lot in common! Ho wvery cool is that. It does mean, woe is me! Thank you for your very kind words. We are all well, finally! ❤ #globalblogging
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That’s really good to hear, stay healthy! 🙂👍x
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…and poppin’ back here for #TriumphantTales 😊x
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Sorry that made me chuckle! I’ve missed reading your posts! So sorry you missed your break. I hate disappointment and really don’t deal with it well. Glad little is better though and you can all laugh about it.
We’ve spent most of our Easter break poorly with me and G with coughs, colds and fevers and then someone decided to treat me to a UTI as well. Dammit! We are a lot healthier than some and we are grateful for it. Weather is utter shite here anyways.
#KCACOLS
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Sorry for the delay. Not only were you feeling poorly, but you ended up in my spam! So sorry, but happy to save you! I hope all are well in your house. We are, for now! 🙂 #KCACOLS xoxo
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Oh no, what a shame! So I haven’t seen The Greatest Showman yet… Glad Little is better though. #kcacols
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Thank you Carol! 😘✨
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I hope that you are all feeling better now, it’s heart breaking when you have to cancel your plans especially when you have been looking forward to them for so long. Fingers crossed you get to make the trip later this year and thanks so much for linking up at #fortheloveofBLOG. Claire x
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Thank you, Claire! We are all mended and looking forward to another go at it in June. 😘✨ #fortheloveofBLOG
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Poor little! I’m glad it passed quickly but sorry your plans didn’t work out. Dee got chickenpox last year when we were supposed to be going to a festival in the summer. It’s no fun at all when plans are cancelled for such a horrible alternative. And congratulations, someone loved this post so much, they added it to the #BlogCrush linky! Feel free to collect your ‘I’ve been featured’ blog badge 🙂
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Thank you, Alice!!! That is such cool 😎 news!!! #blogcrush is an honor! Xoxo
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